Sex & Relationships

I work at a celeb sex club — this is what happens behind closed doors

Here you can let your freak flag fly.

Performers from the luxury sex club SNCTM dished about what really goes on behind the members-only doors, where lovers are chained up, dressed as animals and even romp onstage.

Entry can cost up to $50,000 per year just to experience the pleasure of the club, which is hosted in penthouse suites around the world. Guests include famed actors, professional athletes, affluent businessmen and the elite 1%, all of whom participate in elaborate dinners, pool parties, masquerade balls — and, of course, their wildest sexual fantasies.

“We intentionally curate the crowd to contain a mixture of different types of guests,” a rep for SNCTM, which prohibits cellphones and enforces a black-tie dress code, told Jam Press. “Homogeneity is boring.”

At SNCTM, patrons are encouraged to explore their wildest erotic fantasies. Jam Press/SNCTM

Access to the exclusive, intimate society is on an application basis, and participants eager to get their freak on are assessed based on reputation and if they fit the “atmosphere.”

The main event of each night is obviously the erotic performances, which are designed by Inka Nevala, the creative director.

Insiders dished what really goes on behind the glamorous closed doors, where nothing is off limits. Jam Press/SNCTM

“When I first attended SNCTM as a guest, I felt like I had walked into a movie set,” Jessica, a performer, told Jam Press of her introduction to SNCTM in 2019. “The energy of the room was electric and I saw some of the most beautiful people in one room.”

Since joining the club and ditching her job in tech and finance in Los Angeles, she’s found herself in some unexpected situations, such as being chained up dressed as a kitten at a VIP table, or acting as a “virgin sacrifice” when roleplaying.

Celebrities, athletes and CEOs — oh my. SNCTM is home to a diverse group of high-class individuals, who pay thousands just to gain entry. Jam Press/SNCTM

“I felt a draw to this world since it was so much more of a safe space to be myself and have expression of my body and thoughts without judgment,” she admitted.

Despite seeming out of the ordinary, Jessica insists roleplaying and leaning into the kinks allows a “more personal connection with the guests,” but ensures she still holds autonomy over how far her character will go.

Haley Grace, a performer at SNCTM, was enthralled with the night of eroticism when she first visited as a guest.

“All the guests were incredibly warm and open-minded so it was easy to connect over the topic of sexuality and kink,” she added. “I’ve participated in dominance and submission acts, as well as girl-on-girl and multiple-partner acts. I’ve been a virgin sacrifice, bunny, silver orchid, black swan, sacred deer and even femme fatale, depending on the theme.”

SNCTM — which first graced Manhattan with its swanky yet raunchy masquerades in 2017 — first began in Los Angeles back in 2013, where the likes of Bill Maher and Gwyneth Paltrow partied among mostly naked performers.

The club’s founder, Damon Lawner, previously told The Post that “the grand object of SNCTM is the eroticism of the human race,” convinced he’s on a “path toward enlightenment” by way of sexual pleasure.

Haley Grace, a performance artist in New York City, uses her gig at SNCTM as a way to “live her sexual fantasies” — and get paid for it.

The Wisconsin native specializes in fire performance, burlesque and fetish, calling her experiences at the high-brow sex club “divine.”

What began as a monthly, exclusive society in LA has expanded around the globe — including Manhattan. Jam Press/SNCTM

“Performing for SNCTM oftentimes feels like I’m getting the opportunity to fully live my sexual fantasies,” she told Jam Press. “At the last event, I did a beautiful bondage play scene while being serenaded by a violinist.

“It was absolutely divine,” she added.

Patrons participate in an array of events, including masquerade balls and, of course, sexual performances and very public romps. Jam Press/SNCTM

She begins most nights doing “a more ambient dance performance,” later indulging in “creative sex scenes on the main stage” with a partner — or partners.

“There is something about the attention to detail that goes into every event that makes it feel sacred to me, almost like a ritual,” explained Grace, who identifies as a polyamorous bisexual.

Performers described their average nights at SNCTM — if they can even be called that — detailing roleplaying scenarios and the kinds of shows they put on. Jam Press/SNCTM

Similarly to Jessica, Grace was also introduced to the club as just a guest — the first time with a date, the second alone — and her “incredible time” prompted her to become a performer. Her work, she said, is “definitely different” than anything she’s done before, due to how “high-end and exclusive” the society is.

She recalled her first time visiting SNCTM: She and her date had been “looking forward to it for months.”

Grace first attended the club as a guest, but was eventually convinced to join as a performer.
“I’ve been chained to a VIP Table as a kitty and it allowed more personal connection with the guests,” Jessica said of SNCTM. “At one point, the wife of the couple had traded places with me and wanted to be chained herself!” Jam Press/SNCTM

“The morning after, we were comparing stories and moments that gave us pleasure from the night before and I remember my mind excitedly spinning,” she continued, adding that it was her first “sex party.” “I was so amazed at how comfortable I felt.”

While working at a sex club may seem “seedy,” Jessica argued her job actually gives her more “power” than most people realize.

“I think women tend to think the events are seedy,” Jessica said. “Done in the right way, women control all the power in a room and have all the sexual agency — something that is not taught to us in society.”